I'm quietly amazed by how he can say nothing - his silent actions are so intensely motivating. It's the most peaceful, genuine, and yet, elevating - even challenging - relationship I've ever had. I'll have to pay attention to minors too.Īnd that made me chuckle - with a knowing grin. I think it is very potent when the aspect is exact.Īlright, it's done. So the sesquisquare can also be as potent. Doesn't matter how you want to call the connection. Is your Venus square his Asc also, Orange? Well, I never saw it, heh, and dated a very different sort of one. I do remember always saying how he's not my type. Reading your last post makes me realize how it feels when your partner utters such words.ĭefinitely attraction, in our case. G0ddamn it, I never thought one stupid aspect can mess me up like this. I understand he probably meant it as a compliment but my heart sank when he said it. To me, that sounded like "you're not exactly good enough, but it will do", like he's settling. He said I'm not the hottest woman he was ever interested in, but he is attracted to me. And truth is I have no idea how accepting or intolerant he really is. I am glad that he's making me confront this, I guess with a more accepting partner this wouldn't have happened. It feels like I am reliving every single rejection all over again. I've always been bullied and criticized about my appearance and my body. He did say he is attracted to me, but I still fear he will reject me when I'll be caught off guard. I probably take it a lot more personally because of the afflictions and, of course, this is his role it seems, to get me to confront them. A person who doesn't strive to be universally liked is someone who could understand me and be more tolerant of my flaws. I thought I do not deserve someone classically attractive. I've always dated a bit beneath my level because I was afraid I would be rejected by a more attractive partner. But it is making me feel so low, bringing up all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and shame about my body. It's like my biggest nightmare, I just want to crawl under the bed and not come out. It feels like he will never accept the less beautiful parts of me, since Libra Venus can be quite intolerant of physical defects, let's be honest here. :/īah, it's all making me feel very insecure. I really don't want Mizz Prissy and Bubbly Libra Venus criticizing how I look. It's bad enough I was born with a Capricorn Asc, but it's also afflicted and receives 4 squares. Yeah, I really don't think I'm gonna like his Libra Venus. I really like whats underneath the dress, though" He'd love to see me wearing jeans and wild hair all the time. "Oww, are you dressing for a beach?" "Haha, it's not a beach dress, my love," - I replied. I quite like it and was trying it on, when my hubby walked in. ![]() My mum gave me a lovely white hippie style dress as a gift. Black is a dominant colour in both of our wardrobes. One day I'm his type, other day I'm notĪctually, just yesterday we had a Venus sq Asc situation. ![]() Difference is, I'm all over the place with properties of my Asc(and Venus), thanks to a square to Uranus, Jupiter and Moon (which are in the same sign as his Venus haha). Thankfully, we share the same overall taste in music and lifestyle. With scorp-venus i had initial attraction but ultimately revulsion (sun was in libra) With taurus-venus i had initial attraction that got stronger (sun was also in taurus) I am concerned that might be the case here too, Enneline. It did not play out bad but at the beginning it was indeed like "basically you are not my type but i do feel attracted to you" Well my huband's ascendant squares my venus and his venus trines my ascendant and here we are. I adore him.įrom: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode My first boyfriend's Venus square my ascendant and we still have a good relationship. Which way would you say this aspect usually goes, in your experience?īut I have Venus square ascendant natal. Topic: Venus square Ascendant in synastry - attraction or revulsion? Venus square Ascendant in synastry - attraction or revulsion? () Venus square Ascendant in synastry - attraction or revulsion? - Lindaland Welcome, Knowflakes, to Lindaland! ()
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